Saturday, January 1, 2011

Happy New Year. From Sister, Daughter, Mother, Aunt and Wife--Jennifer

Maybe this will be the year that everyone in the Tebay family contributes to the Tebay Family blog at least once? Even if it's just a wedding photo (hint to Chanda).

As usual, I'm a little frightened by the seemingly instant passage of one whole year. Last year at this time, we had just finished dealing with end-of-life preparations for Rick's mom, Annette, after we were told by an over-zealous and incompetent caregiver that Annette was on her deathbed. That was a quick lesson in taking control of the decision-making process in Annette's care, and it was a good test run for the real thing (end-of-life issues for Annette).

Then we went to Cuba.

In between our trip to Cuba and today is a blur, which I find disturbing. I'm going to be 60 friggin' years old this year. This is the year to work on slowing down our pace of life and enhancing the good moments. So, maybe next year at this time I will have less blur.

One suggestion for our family blog: instead of attempting to have a traditional-style book club where books are read and then discussed, maybe it would be more realistic if everyone just shared what books they have read and recommend. So, we'd end up with a "2011 Best Books" list.

On that note, I am currently reading, The Wilderness Warrior by David Brinkley, which is about Theodore Roosevelt's passion for the outdoors and hunting, and his impact on conserving land for national parks and wilderness areas in the U.S. This is not a fast read, however, because it is HUGE and it's going to take me months to finish since I only read a few pages at a time. I do like it a lot though.

I'm also reading, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skoots, which I think a lot of you would enjoy. It's about a woman who died in 1951 from cervical cancer, "but before she died, a surgeon took samples of her tumor and put them in a petri dish. Scientists had been trying to keep human cells alive in culture for decades, but they all eventually died. Henrietta's were different: they reproduced an entire generation every twenty-four hours, and they never stopped." There are probably billions of Henrietta's cells in labs around the world today. That description alone may not motivate you to want to read the book, but it is a very readable book. Her life story is fascinating.

I'm also reading Keith Richards' autobiography, Life. Parts of it are very interesting, mostly his passion for music, but a lot of the book, as you would expect of the life of a famous rock star, is about the drivel of fame: drugs, sex and beautiful people.

Lisa is home for a couple weeks, and she purchased 4 books yesterday at Borders that she has been wanting to read, so I'll see if I can get her to list those on the blog.

I know Craig is planning a cribbage-tournament birthday for himself on January 28th, and I'm hoping Rick and I can make it. Karen is thinking of organizing a Tebay first-of-the-year get-together, so that weekend might work out for that too?

So, hope to see everyone soon! I wish everyone much love and health in the new year!

--Jennifer


Sunday, November 21, 2010

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Hello everyone! Yes..at last.. and I'm not talkin Etta James..after nearly five years of constant pain I recently had my third back surgery. This one was no fun at all. Three and a half hours of surgery has relieved some of the pain , yet the disabling nerve damage has been made worse due to the surgery activity around the nerve. I'm back on the 2-3 years recovery, hoping some of the nerve damage will repair. I'm still really sore inside. It hursts. Can't sit.. well I can, but not without causing numbness. Walking up stairs and hills is still a no no. Walking daily on a flat surface has been recommended for my recovery. Being real careful in my body mechanics to avoid setbacks. I have to thank Rick and Jennifer for their help and kindness. Ricks handling of the pre-opt mri intrepretations led directly to the right decision. Jennifer's minding my post-opt recovery helped althrough my recovery. I stayed until they were demolishing their kitchen and family area. A timely exit. ( I was sleeping on the family area floor for the first week) I've been home a week now...and I...really miss Jennifer's dinners. Can't find food prepared that good at a restaurant! I found I can't even duplicate her oatmeal. I'm still trying. Can't forget my little buddy..my shadow..Marley ,I'll miss her too.I been talking with Melanie trying to get her and Steve home for Christmas. Tickets are so darn expensive at this time of year. By the time she new her Christmas schedule..tickets prices soared. Gouging! It sucks. If not Christmas...maybe early January. When she and Steve do get home I would like to have a family get together. To be announced. Got to spend a little time with Sam and Megan. Couldn't participate in most activities. I can always eat...yikes.. have to watch my calorie intake or I will gain weight. Darn! O.K. I'm attaching some pictures of my trip., before and after. Enjoy! Craig.

Friday, November 12, 2010

Halloween 2010







Just a few pictures of our Halloween get-ups. Campbell took great pride in his Rodeo Clown outfit that we managed to throw together from his closet and the Goodwill for less then $10.00. On the other hand, Emerson's Jessie from Toy Story (you know Woody's friend.. she would not like to be called Woody's girlfriend:) was a totally different financial venture. We usually don't make it a practice of "breaking the bank" when it comes to Halloween, but when she finally decided what she wanted to be, I soon realized that homemade Jessie was not going to be easy. On a trip to Portland we found her costume at a Disney Store and I decided to bite the bullet and buy it, simply because I knew my homemade Jessie costume would never of been to Emerson's liking. Needless to say, she was very cute and now is wearing her costume daily when when she plays, so I guess we are going to recoup some of our money as long as it continues to be a dress up costume, too.
Emerson is infatuated with Toy Story right now. We had to break out Toy Story 1 and Toy Story 2 for her (and yes, they are on VHS, I must say) so she could get caught up on the Toy Story saga before watching Toy Story 3. She wasn't even born when the first 2 came out. We now own Toy Story 3, but it is on DVD, thank goodness. She had great plans of redecorating her bedroom in the whole Toy Story motif, but we had to get a handle on that one, especially since the room was redecorated just about 4 months ago, plus the Toy Story fad will pass and it will be something new soon.
Hope to see everyone soon!














Sunday, November 7, 2010

NYC Marathon in Greenpoint

Every year the New York City Marathon comes through our neighborhood and it's kind of become a tradition that Steve and I go out and watch the runners. The wheelchairs and guides come first, then the top women's group, then the top men's group. It's always amazing to see how incredibly fast and lean the top runners are! We got a new video camera recently, so here's a little clip of the top men's group coming through Greenpoint...blink and you'll miss them!

Saturday, October 2, 2010

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Hello everyone. I'm going to post some pictures of the month of Sept. Enjoy.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

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Hello again. Found pictures I thought I had lost. Congratulations to Greg and Chanda.